which are worst

simple question,
vent out ur emotion at a place in the internet where no one know except few ppl or vent out at a place in the internet where a lot of ppl know?

to understand this, first set the rules that venting out emotion at a place in the internet is bad thing to do because sumbody might find out (according to sumone)

but, whenever they vent their emotion in a place where a lot of ppl can know it is ok with reason it is my place, my account, up to me what i want to put.. but when u vent ur emotion in a place where only few ppl know its existence, they start to flip out and say, i dun like ur way of venting ur emotion, u dun know me, i am better than u are, etc..

bear in mind that no names were mentioned in both parties.. so, what do u think of a person who doesnt like other ppl venting out their emotion in the internet but they themselves do it?