Thursday, September 2, 2010

It is really hard to let go something that is very precious to u

Toys, Cars, Books, Souvenirs, Memories, Experience, People, Games, Gadgets etc...

One of this might be something that you hold very dearly to your heart. Something that cherish your life. Something that fills the gaps in your life. Having something precious in your possession makes you feel at ease, makes you feel you have the reason to exist in this world, makes you happy and motivates you.

The future is uncertain. Some plans will go as predicted, some will go the other way around. Some involve the need to let go of your precious things for better good of everyone. Opening back a big gap in your life, starting to wonder again in the midst of uncertainty to find something that holds you to the right path in life.

It comes with utterly devastating pain, something that require both your mind and emotion to resist it. Something that requires the help from Allah for He only can truly help His creations.

In life, we have choices to be made. The choice to let something go is not a favourable choice but it usually the best choice to be taken. Sorrow, grievance is part of the damage from taking that choice but the end result usually is the best for everyone.

Everything that occurs in this world is with consent of Allah. For He are the Most Caring, Most Passionate, always helping, guiding and teaching His creations to a better way of life. He knows what we do not. He understands what we do not. His decision is the best decision ever.

I, one of His creation, one of His servant, seek refuge to Him for He is my Master, He is my God, He is my salvation. I still have happiness in spite of swirling in the depths of sorrows for He will be always watching over me.

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Part 6

Part 6 will be posted sometime next week starting on Sunday :D

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Part 5 of the Guess Who Quiz Bonus Round

Welcome to the Bonus Round of the quiz.. the rules of the game is the same but the prize would be Daim chocolate (10 biji) and you only need to guess one person this time..

9. She is the top 'hot stuff' but also can be the average lookin gal. She can be active in recreational activities but also can be a 'couch potato'. She can be a cheerful & friendly person but she also can be shy. She usually study well but she can also slack off in her study. She usually act more matured than the others but sometimes she can be childish also. She is gentle & kind but she can be a scary person. She really love & care for her friends. She is still single (i think :P). Who is She?

Monday, June 28, 2010

Guess Who :D part 4 - England balik kg tanam jagung sbb dier jaguh kampung

Part 4 means nearly half of the students name already on this quiz. It also means future challenge will get better prize (DAIM choc is available hehehe)

7. This Guy wears spectacles. Proactive in learning when he has a chance to meet me. Shy person but friendly also. This Guy is like the Yin during the tutorials when compare with person 8. He is lean build and more muscular when compare with perosn 8. Who is He?

8. This Guy wears spectacles. Proactive in learning when he has a chance to meet me. Shy person but friendly also. This Guy is like Yang during the tutorials when compare with person 7. He is lean build but not too muscular when compare with person 7. Who is He?

Friday, June 25, 2010

Guess who? part 3

I wake up this morning and remember 2 person that I've got to know in the past 9 month..

5. I make it easy by giving a big clue. She wears a visual aid object. She is very friendly to ppl around her and talks a lot. She is one of the cute ones in the batch. I've seen her going to class using a method of transportation. Every time a picture of her was taken, you can notice a different kind of pose. She talks a lot but sometimes can be a quiet person. She is tough person but with a soft heart. The first time I met her, her face looks somewhat familiar to me. Who is she?

6. The sixth person also wears a visual aid object but if she remove it she can be what you all call 'hot stuff' in the batch. She also has a method of transportation to go to class. She has a 'want to kill' type of sidelong look. She also can be a fiesty gal sometimes. She sometimes has a rough personality but has a kind heart. Same as person no 5, she also has a face that looks quite familiar when I first met her. Who is she?

Winner will get kit-kat :D

Guess who :D - part 2.. have to increase the difficulty

And we're back for part 2.. I will increase the difficulty

3. after throwing the dice, the lucky one is a gal. Not much I know about her since she is a shy girl. Second time when I'm giving the tutorial, I confuse her with someone else. She has a ferrari engine as her left brain but not the same engine as her right brain. One of the five power rangers in the batch (I label it in order to easily remember the name & person). She might be interested in the weather. She has a wide smiley face and it looks the same as an anime character that has a big smiley face. The key to contact her via one of the online communication system is cute. She also have out of the ordinary relationship :P. She went to the same school different place as I am and. When it comes to pose for a picture shot, the smiley face is almost alwiz identical hehehehe. Who is she?

4. person number 4 also has the same gender as person no 3. She has the same interest as I am when it comes to hobby. She is not online when this entry is posted. Like person no 3, she also go to the same school as I am but different place. Both she and I experienced learning in the same city although different time/year. Her hometown was a bundle of fishing spot. She is one of the trios that loves to laugh. I can't give more clue or else she will be easy to guess hahaha. In tutorial, she was one of the students that I aim to give questions :D. So, who is she?

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Guess who :D - part 1

In the last 9 month of my life, I've met a lot of new ppl, made new frens.. now lets guess who he/she is based on the description (this is also the test whether I know about the person @ not, sort of final exam Q :D)

1. here comes the first one.. SHE is from the east, loves watching anything from the east that comes out of the magic box but sometimes also watch production from west. she has felines roaming in her house. A calm person in public but sometime can also get wild (dunno what happens in her college room hahaha). She has a close partner in crime which also the person she is in relationship with although it is out of the ordinary (:P ahhahaha). Her role among the grp sometimes is more like an elder sister and she could be the one of the person to refer to when it comes to emotional problem. She is an amusing person when it comes to chain-comments in facebook. Who is she?

2. the second person and the last one for Part 1 would be a HE. He is favourable among his friends. Cool person and can be 'shy-shy cat' also. He has a sparkling jewel in his brain and the first one to finish in the battlefield. Good with the ladies and also good in covering the full extent of his true abilities/talent. He also a frequent customer to the tube and supplier for clips and good stories. I dunno much more about him hehehehe. So, who is he?

end of part 1.. to be continued

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

which are worst

simple question,
vent out ur emotion at a place in the internet where no one know except few ppl or vent out at a place in the internet where a lot of ppl know?

to understand this, first set the rules that venting out emotion at a place in the internet is bad thing to do because sumbody might find out (according to sumone)

but, whenever they vent their emotion in a place where a lot of ppl can know it is ok with reason it is my place, my account, up to me what i want to put.. but when u vent ur emotion in a place where only few ppl know its existence, they start to flip out and say, i dun like ur way of venting ur emotion, u dun know me, i am better than u are, etc..

bear in mind that no names were mentioned in both parties.. so, what do u think of a person who doesnt like other ppl venting out their emotion in the internet but they themselves do it?

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

The key to master anything

Everyone in this world learn somthin everyday either by formal education or non-formal or unintentionally coz learning is knowing about something be it necessary or unnecessary.. but there is no such thing as unnecessary knowledge because all knowledge are gifts from Allah to His creation in this world..

different ppl has different level of proficiency in acquiring knowledge, retain the knowledge and applying it.. what make ppl have different level of proficiency? generally speaking it about whether that person have the same interest to know about it.. if that person doesn't have any interest then the proficiency will drop and vice versa..

so, what makes a person able to master about sumthin? some say deep interest, some say obsession, but both are actually the same.. this is because they willing to do anything for it including sacrificing precious time, confined themselves in isolation or worse sacrificing relationship..

it is true.. this is because if a person put all his thought into one issue, he/she can achieve extraordinary things with a price of course which is not knowing of anything other than the issue they focus on.. nowadays in professional field, it can be called specialization..

the less they think about other issue and focus on the main issue the better they are at dealing that issue but the consequence include they become worst at dealing other issues.. if they can handle the consequences its ok but almost all ppl at one time in the future regret about not picking the better way of life..

some regret it early and some regret it later.. the earlier they regret the better it is because they have more time to reenact the living their lost.. this is because death is something that is uncertain.. someone who are very healthy can die anytime, or someone having treated by the most advanced medical services existed also can die.. the time of death, only Allah knows when.. we only know when that person already breath his/her last air..

back to the topic, it is actually up to the individual to pick on which aspect of their life to master upon at that particular time.. the best would be balanced it and pick the best path when arriving at the crossroad.. the hint on which path to take is when both ur mind and emotion knows that it is the path to take..

because everything we did in our life, we gain sumthin and we lose sumthing.. that is the rule of this world.. everything has a price.. everything must be balanced out or exist in equilibrium.. sometime u have to learn to let go something u really love in order for u to master something that u really want that includes someone that has a special place in ur heart..

Monday, March 15, 2010

Mind and Emotion

The difference between human and animal is that Allah give human the gift of the mind which enable us to differentiate right and wrong, make sound judgement, to develop ourselves to become much better.. without our mind, we are like animals which are gifted with instincts..

well how about emotions? some expert believe animals also have emotions but it is not proven scientifically yet but who knows, Allah can create anything and everything is possible to Him..

as far as we are concern, mind and emotion are two main driving force of thinking process.. these two are the two extreme in a spectrum of forces driving the thinking process..

so, who is on which extreme?.. by nature, man is widely distributed on the spectrum inclining towards the mind and woman is widely distributed on the spectrum inclining towards the emotion.. although there are some rare occasion that the distribution is off the normal grid.. this shows that man thinking process is mainly influence by the mind and woman is influence mainly by the emotion..

this is the reason why man are better in becoming leaders and woman are better in caring for loved ones.. this does not make man are better than woman or vice versa.. it shows that in order to do somthing, say something, feel something, solve something, or think about something, we can view it from two general prespective although each individual perspective are unique..

now comes to why man never understand woman and vice versa.. this is because both of them are thinking from their own perspective with their own thinking process.. of course they will not understand each other because they are not seeing what the other gender see.. if u are book lovin type u;ll come across the book call "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus".. it is true in the sense that when compare between these two planets, it is opposite to each other, in terms of rotational direction, orbit and atmospheric condition.. so those fr venus will never understand those from mars because there are accustomed to each own culture and each own abilities and weaknesses..

unless, they are willing to go outside their comfort zone and start thinking from both mind emotion.. meaning making their driving force for thinking both mind and emotion is complete balance.. balance/equilibrium/wasatiah is an important key in this world.. without balance things will go chaotic and results in destruction..

back to the topic at hand, what is between venus and mars? of coz it is the earth.. careful study shows that earth has both elements found in venus and mars although not all and the result is this planet is flourishing with lifeforms and beautiful scenery.. the point is if human starts to balanced out they thinking process's driving force, they can do much2 more than what they can realize..

Clear example is during the time of Rasulullah, there are war and battle skirmishes occurs and the first battle which is the Battle of Badr by which 300 muslims fought against one thousands Quraisy ppl that oppose them and only equipped with only branches of Tamar.. in the end the muslims won the battle.. y is these ppl underequipped, unexperienced able to win the battle? this is because they've unleashed the full potential of human body by synchronizing both their mind and emotion in a single goal.. to fight for Allah..

normally, the balance is slightly off due to the nature of human however there are some cases that balance is thrown off very far resulting in either thinking based solely on the mind or thinking based solely on the emotion.. this will result in the unsound decision making and decision that satisfy oneself only or decision that satisfy other ppl only which can result in accumulation of emotional and mental stress that consequently have predisposition towards mental or emotional illness should the person unable to bear it.. side effect includes mixing professional matters with personal matters, religious matter and non-religious matters and so on..

there are also condition where someone is lost in thinking using the different driving force resulting in that person not becoming themselves.. it is hard to find ur way back once u r lost unless u still remember sumthin that reminds of who u r when u using ur usual driving force to think.. the situation is often being confused with those who able to synchronize their mind and emotion.. it is alwiz seen in when ppl are striving for sumthin and have the potential to lose what they hold on, ppl that are in love, ppl that recently experience heavy or severe mental/physical/emotional trauma.. the difference between those that able to synchronize their emotion and mind is that the decision, the judgement and know when to act in adapting to the ever changing environment and accepting it..

what would happen if the two driving force in the human body have different point in viewing sumthing regardless of which one is dominant? simply put it will result in decision that keep on changing rapidly in order to satisfy both driving force or decision that is made by dominant driving force for thinking that make that person being unhappy, suppressing the other driving force which consequently result in that person unconsciously making decision or act based on the suppressed driving force.. they don't realize it unless someone show it back to them how they act and let them view from third person perspective.. so what will be the consequence of these unconscious act? it can affect anything that is related to that person or other person when the act is busted or made known and ended with somebody having unexpected heavy physical/mental/emotional stress..

the point is to balance out both ur mind and emotion.. u need ur mind to make sound judgement and u also need ur emotion to make judgement that is not selfish or disheartening to other ppl or to urself..

Sunday, March 14, 2010

good choices at the crossroad

almost all of the time when good choices are made, u are happy and feel free.. when good choices are made, our plans are on track, our anxieties are relieve and we feel that we have control of our lives.. very2 true

but.. are good choices alwiz be the best choice? the answer is no.. this is because good choices are maybe only good for you and maybe bring problems or misery or difficulties to other ppl.. but that is not the point here.. the point is if someone alwiz making good choices in their life, once they've stumble upon bad choices, they will start go go down the drain and find it hard to recover.. apart from that, good choices boost up morale, ego, confidence level.. ppl that have problem controlling these aspect might end up lookin down on other ppl and think that they are alwiz right, which are not true since the nature of human is to make mistakes..

in this world, things need to be in balance or wasatiah.. we cannot make too much bad choices and we cannot make to much good choices.. coz too many good choices makes us forget who we really are before and too much bad choices end u up in more problems than before..

the best choice is the one that u pick accurately suitable to the time, place and person.. some situation requires u to make bad choices for greater good.. like a proverb sayin u need to be cruel to be kind.. some situation u need to make good choices so that u'll have sumthin to hold in order to continue ur life.. so the best choice will be either one using at the right place, right time and right person.. and difference in the variation of these three element results in different choice to be made..

bad choices at the crossroad

let say u've pick one path at the crossroad and u found out that it was path that makes u unhappy or misery or demotivated or result in any negative consequences, usually ppl tend to backtrack to the crossroad and choose the better path.. but unfortunately, it is not possible because if u backtrack, u'll not come across the same crossroad.. it will be different one since the timeline has been changed..

the reason ppl want to backtrack is because they are afraid of changes, afraid of not having the same thing.. this group of ppl is not positive thinkers, they cant adapt well to the changes of the environment and they alwiz find their life very2 difficult.. well most of the ppl manage to endure the bad choices in their life but some big bad choices results in bigger emotional or mental scar.. some say only time can heal.. well it is true but it u just do nothing and wait, ur life will fall apart.. confront the consequences, maintain ur life, try to correct it as soon as possible and remember the mistake u made so that u'll not repeat it back again.. just remember not to be an ignorant fool.. waiting is good but sumtimes waiting can also do more damage.. just need to know when to wait and when to act..

the point is, once u've chosen a path, it is very2 unlikely that u can undo it and have to live with it the rest of ur life.. treasure it coz it is ur experience in life and it will helps u in ur future.. this is because everything that happens in the world is by the will of Allah and everything that happens in the world has something that we can learn from it or is a "hikmah".. therefore, try to be less ignorant and deem certain things unnecessary because if it really unnecessary, Allah wouldn't make it happen..

Saturday, March 13, 2010

stuck at the crossroad

everyone has at least once experience in their life a point by which they find it very difficult to make a decision.. for example, to go out @ to stay in, to keep it or to let it go @ to move up or to move down..
generally this problem occurs when limited information is available to make the judgement and ppl are stuck in a ill-defined line between the two choices.. other causes includes emotional barrier, commitment @ responsibility barrier and egoistic barrier.. ppl alwiz make the third option which is wait & decide later but eventually they will end up in a situation of choosing the worst decision out of available option..
when that time comes, they usually feel angry & upset.. not because of the situation but because of not making better decision in the past.. although some deny that they took the wrong turn that end up with more problems but that is normal as they are grieving and undergo the 5 stages of grieve (denial, anger, depression, bargaining and acceptance).. most of ppl will stay longer in denial and depression state especially those with big ego and alwiz think full of themselves but eventually all ppl will pass all stages of grieve..
back to the topic, if u happen to be stuck at the crossroad, u can either gather more information to help u decide or if it not possible to gain more information, just choose the one closes to ur dreams and be a little bit selfish.. it is not wrong to be selfish in this case coz after all, other ppl become selfish when things that are precious to them are threatened..
what about the third option? some ppl say that there alwiz be more than two options available.. indeed there is third option which is be ignorant, sit quitely, do nothing, wait and depend on the fate.. some ppl love this option but eventually they'll regret it the most since fate is a double edge sword unless u can predict the future..
up to u to choose which path to take.. just make sure u r prepare to handle the path and its consequences.. dun start blaming on the surrounding if the path does not turn out as what u r expecting