bad choices at the crossroad

let say u've pick one path at the crossroad and u found out that it was path that makes u unhappy or misery or demotivated or result in any negative consequences, usually ppl tend to backtrack to the crossroad and choose the better path.. but unfortunately, it is not possible because if u backtrack, u'll not come across the same crossroad.. it will be different one since the timeline has been changed..

the reason ppl want to backtrack is because they are afraid of changes, afraid of not having the same thing.. this group of ppl is not positive thinkers, they cant adapt well to the changes of the environment and they alwiz find their life very2 difficult.. well most of the ppl manage to endure the bad choices in their life but some big bad choices results in bigger emotional or mental scar.. some say only time can heal.. well it is true but it u just do nothing and wait, ur life will fall apart.. confront the consequences, maintain ur life, try to correct it as soon as possible and remember the mistake u made so that u'll not repeat it back again.. just remember not to be an ignorant fool.. waiting is good but sumtimes waiting can also do more damage.. just need to know when to wait and when to act..

the point is, once u've chosen a path, it is very2 unlikely that u can undo it and have to live with it the rest of ur life.. treasure it coz it is ur experience in life and it will helps u in ur future.. this is because everything that happens in the world is by the will of Allah and everything that happens in the world has something that we can learn from it or is a "hikmah".. therefore, try to be less ignorant and deem certain things unnecessary because if it really unnecessary, Allah wouldn't make it happen..