stuck at the crossroad

everyone has at least once experience in their life a point by which they find it very difficult to make a decision.. for example, to go out @ to stay in, to keep it or to let it go @ to move up or to move down..
generally this problem occurs when limited information is available to make the judgement and ppl are stuck in a ill-defined line between the two choices.. other causes includes emotional barrier, commitment @ responsibility barrier and egoistic barrier.. ppl alwiz make the third option which is wait & decide later but eventually they will end up in a situation of choosing the worst decision out of available option..
when that time comes, they usually feel angry & upset.. not because of the situation but because of not making better decision in the past.. although some deny that they took the wrong turn that end up with more problems but that is normal as they are grieving and undergo the 5 stages of grieve (denial, anger, depression, bargaining and acceptance).. most of ppl will stay longer in denial and depression state especially those with big ego and alwiz think full of themselves but eventually all ppl will pass all stages of grieve..
back to the topic, if u happen to be stuck at the crossroad, u can either gather more information to help u decide or if it not possible to gain more information, just choose the one closes to ur dreams and be a little bit selfish.. it is not wrong to be selfish in this case coz after all, other ppl become selfish when things that are precious to them are threatened..
what about the third option? some ppl say that there alwiz be more than two options available.. indeed there is third option which is be ignorant, sit quitely, do nothing, wait and depend on the fate.. some ppl love this option but eventually they'll regret it the most since fate is a double edge sword unless u can predict the future..
up to u to choose which path to take.. just make sure u r prepare to handle the path and its consequences.. dun start blaming on the surrounding if the path does not turn out as what u r expecting